it wasn't so much the photo that unsettled me (though that didn't help) it was the other personal stuff she shared with me. As for the passport remark in my post, any idiot could see that wasn't meant to be taken literally..it was figurative. You know.."being on a journey/passport". Get it now do you, or do you want me to join up all the dots for you? Anyway, thank you for making me laugh with your reply. Much appreciated!