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Yep, you are agreeing with me even though you are arguing.Damn, Im being slow tonight, we agree..
Kinda.
Nurture wins.
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Yep, you are agreeing with me even though you are arguing.Damn, Im being slow tonight, we agree..
Kinda.
That last line...I couldn't agree more.Like everyone else, this case really affected me. Do what I do for a living, I'd been following it from the first news stories and have never cried so much in years. However, what I'm about to say about this will not be popular!
Social Services....absolutely, no way on Earth they acted appropriately. ANY Social Worker should have seen that the bruise in the pictures was not caused by an accident- way, way too big and too deep of an injury to be caused by a fall on to toys while playing with another child. It was also clear from the picture in the colouring that there was more than one bruise (you could see the edges of a healing bruise underneath the new bruise). However, out of all the evidence that there was to indicate he was being abused, this was the only piece of solid evidence that S.S had. Everything else was via reporting from others, which (and I'm not excusing S.S) can have another motive and this is something Social Workers have to sift through. False reporting to S.S is very common from ex-partners and warring family members & neighbours.
Not a lot of people know the workings of Children's Services and seem to think that they are an Emergency Service and have rights to take children out of abusive homes. They're not and they don't.
The public seem to think that they have an endless amount of safe families and parents to hand abused and neglected children over to once saving them from their homes. They don't- in fact, it's a struggle to get children into a foster home and there are children that we have to leave with parents we know are neglectful or putting them at risk, because there is simply no one else to take them. Do you honestly think any social worker sleeps easy at night knowing that?
And there's the amount of work. Most families struggle with the responsibility of 2 or 3 children. Trying having to ensure the safety and be responsible for the lives of around 40+ children? Every day, checking in; writing the scores of unnecessarily paperwork to go with every visit, phone call, email; constructing the endless 'safety contracts' with families and carers; the court documentation; the supervisions with managers; the agency meetings.
The average day for a Social Worker starts at around 5am- collecting children from carers to bring them to school, helping parents get kids to school, etc- and doesn't end till the early hours, when they are having to write up every movement from their day.
And then there's the turnover of staff. Local Authorities have so much trouble retaining staff, it's shocking. Some stay less than a week when they see their workloads.
There's so much more. It's a system that has so many organisational failings and as a result, our children fail. But is it the Social Worker's fault? Hell, no! They're puppets of an overworked, overloaded system.
And the real culprits in this?
Not Social Services, but the father for putting his prick before his child and the scumbag wh***, who shouldn't have been 10 feet near a child.
Perhaps if parents put their children first and not their relationships, Social Services would be able to function adequately.
This case was a failing on multiple levels, but tbh, the police and social services are the two systems in the list that desperately need reform. Schools are actually pretty good at reporting concerns and from working in one for many years, I know there is often frustration that their concerns are not always picked up by children's services. All a teacher or school can do is report the concern to them and monitor the child on a personal level, but it's up to C.S to take it further or initiate any support/care.It's normal to want to blame people when things like this happen.
Obviously, the evil and useless parent/step parent are to blame. Hopefully the sentences will be increased, God willing they never get out ever again, that would be justice....well actually real justice would be capital punishment, but dying in jail is the next best thing I suppose.
I agree that most of us don't realise the workload of the average social worker, especially when dealing with children.
The woman who collected her hefty pension after taking early retirement certainly wasn't your average social worker though.
The saddest part was in Arthurs case, he did have family who loved him, who could have taken care of him, but the deviousness of the step mother and father, ensured they were cut off from seeing him.
Unfortunately, police, social workers, teachers, and society in general were stopped from helping him....I read the grandmother was warned by police she would be in trouble if she kept bothering them with reports about cruelty.
Sometimes human error and failure to protect the vulnerable has to be looked into, and in this case...yes, I believe it should be.
It's a sad fact that children will always be at risk, but hell, something needs to be done. Arthur is another in a list of children dying in unimaginable circumstances, because someone didn't do their job properly and there shouldn't be a list...there shouldn't even be one.
Ahh, Moriarty! I did wonder if I'd see your name pop up before I had a chance to tackle the Altruism debate!Yes, the ones not doing thier job is the family.
Anything else is just attribution of blame to an institution not an individual.
However, (see my first post) can social workers really be held responsible when it is an institutional problem of inadequate processes, poorly trained and overloaded staff, and a lack of people in the actual jobs?