sense of humour.

[JustinCredible]

I wouldn't trust any woman! ok call me a misogynist lol but don't stay away . .don't give up on your room.

 

[page]

i think sarcasm and quick wittedness are good traits and add humor to a chatroom. political correctedness can go too far and is unnecessary at times. i find lots of jokes funny but there may be a few who are offended. in my opinion if they are so few and are offended, dont read it, block that person. like if 90 are in a room and mostly laugh at a seemingly harmless joke, and there is one or two saying thats too pervie or whatever, doesnt majority rule in a sense?

 

[navsbad]

It seems I'm permanently banned from the YAH room. Every time I enter I get bounced and, banned....no warning...a few hellos to and from friends then.....whoosh. It seems I'd be better to be a troll picking on chatters than a free thinking chatter taking issue (is this a crime) with the mods when they intrude and, stifle the witty banter of the room. I'm hoping the owners follow these threads, the room is haemorrhaging members....good members. Given the new members we have from AOL the numbers should be much higher than they actually are. It'll soon be left with those that never chat in the room and, those quite content to be subjugated.
Owners, you really do need to takes steps to address this, the YAH room should be the most vibrant and, popular on your site.
Mods...an explanation as to why you're running scared and ban me every time I enter would be appreciated.
Still Homeless.

 

[midget_gem]

Well navsbad u will need to go into ur home land turf room then. We will welcome u with open arms.

 

[navsbad]

Lol Midge...get those arms open, I'm on my way

 

[BlackMagicBabeXx]

quote by Hollie......In our room, unless its something that warrants instant action, we have a whisper first and ask nicely, sometimes a secondary whisper and advise, then a .. you have been asked twice to **** (what ever) now stop! then action. There are and always will be a variation on this because each situation is different... but that is the general rule of thumb. normally most chatters do as asked with the first whisper and the situation is resolved to the benefit of all concerned.

How an you ban someone without telling them basically everything above is lies.

Since when is it reasonable to let someone come into the room only to be kicked out and banned not once but several times...if that isn't abuse of mod power then what is???

 

[navsbad]

Bounced on sight 4 times now, Trolls and Hackers get less...I reckon I must've touched a chord.
I just wish they would consider if my comments are valid rather than react like a bunch of scaredycats.
I've been on chat for over 20 years now and, have never come across such vile and, sinister behaviour from so called mods. Hollie must have the fear of death in them, they were generally good fun before they took such exalted office or, maybe it's because I don't give em a kiss when I say hello...my reasons for that are simple, I don't want the taste of Hollies arse on my lips.
Still Homeless and, reduced to posting on here

 

[lorr_45]

ill get u my prettyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy kiss my arse or else your gone now thats more the quote how things have changed nav eh wouldn't say boo at 1 stage and now loook

 

[BlackMagicBabeXx]

hes an auld tart but hes not that bad lol the grumpy old bugger lol

 

[lorr_45]

lolol i agree but wasn't nav i was on about was her that should be obeyed hahaha

 

[BlackMagicBabeXx]

ohh u mean the beast of devon lol the auld hippie lol

 

[navsbad]

the auld hippie with the calendar showing 1982 on her 5 yo profile pic...?

 

[BlackMagicBabeXx]

ooo well spotted i neva noticed that lol

 

[navsbad]

Ok, I received a pm from dave9uk...here's the reason I'm banned from the yah room

• 
  dave9uk
  Hi
• 
  navsbad
  hi...how can I help ?
• 
  dave9uk
  Thanks for spking to me
• 
  navsbad
  yw
• 
  dave9uk
  You know yrbanned from yah
• 
  navsbad
  yes, you generally let me come in....then bounce and ban me
• 
  dave9uk
  Ok yes
• 
  navsbad
  mind games...?
• 
  dave9uk
  No
• 
  dave9uk
  Here me out plz
• 
  navsbad
  ok
• 
  dave9uk
  And im not here to argue
• 
  navsbad
  I'm not arguing...that was a question
• 
  navsbad
  and, I'm listening, finish what you have to say, I won't comment until you're done
• 
  dave9uk
  I took the decision to to do tbis because of the complaints and abuse to the mods
• 
  navsbad
  ok
• 
  dave9uk
  We hadcomplaints from chattersabout u
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  navsbad
  the owners...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Also tbe abuse that yougiveto holly
• 
  navsbad
  still listening
• 
  dave9uk
  No other chatters in the room
• 
  navsbad
  ok
• 
  dave9uk
  It cant go on
• 
  dave9uk
  You may see it asbanter but others dont
• 
  navsbad
  what you need to decide is if the complainers are in the majority...I know from pm's and whispers that the vast majority share my views
• 
  navsbad
  and, that's shown in the number of regulars that are leaving
• 
  navsbad
  the problem the mods have is that they're trying to impose infantile rules and, it's not fair on them
• 
  dave9uk
  The yah room is meant to be aclean room
• 
  navsbad
  I speak my mind...I don't abuse
• 
  dave9uk
  Ok
• 
  navsbad
  well....strangely enough, when all this blew up, the room was having a great laugh on a subject that was no more than a 10yo would laugh at...until a mod stepped in and, killed it
• 
  dave9uk
  What was the subject
• 
  navsbad
  the vast majority that share my view are people who actually chat in the room...not people who sit there saying nothing
• 
  navsbad
  tampons
• 
  dave9uk
  And a 10 yr old wud talk abtthat ?
• 
  dave9uk
  Mine wouldnt
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  navsbad
  of course, they learn it at school when they're 9
• 
  navsbad
  ok...let's call it 14 yo for the sake of argument....are you saying that tampons can't be a source of banter...?
• 
  navsbad
  on a previous occasion it was knickers
• 
  dave9uk
  Banteryes to an extent
• 
  navsbad
  prior to that someone got booted for talking about moby dick...the book...it's utterly ludicrous
• 
  dave9uk
  Dick is abanned word
• 
  navsbad
  if you're saying that's too much, your best bet is to rename the room the quakers room
• 
  navsbad
  lol...yes, that's how silly it's become...do you realise how angry people get when they're booted for saying it however innocently...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Anyone that says dick iskicked
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  navsbad
  yes, I think we all know that by now
• 
  navsbad
  that doesn't justify it
• 
  dave9uk
  Ok
• 
  navsbad
  who makes the rules...?
• 
  dave9uk
  How can we resolve this ?
• 
  dave9uk
  Yah is not run by site
• 
  dave9uk
  Its on here
• 
  navsbad
  I suppose I can block all the mods if that would help...I generally react when they try to tone things down
• 
  navsbad
  ok so, hollie makes the rules...?
• 
  navsbad
  or, you...?
• 
  dave9uk
  We mods cant mod the site
• 
  dave9uk
  Site mods cant modyah
• 
  navsbad
  no you mod the room but, my question is...who makes the room rules
• 
  navsbad
  an individual...or, collectively...?
• 
  dave9uk
  The rules were there when i joined and we cantchangethem
• 
  navsbad
  dave, I'm genuinely trying to find a solution...I like the yah room...I regard it as my natural home
• 
  dave9uk
  I know
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  navsbad
  ok...who made them originally...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Erm i dont know but i can find out
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  navsbad
  I can guess
• 
  dave9uk
  But we cant change them
• 
  navsbad
  you can if you want to make it easier for mods to be mods
• 
  navsbad
  there's a way if you're serious
• 
  dave9uk
  We cant
• 
  dave9uk
  We have tried
• 
  navsbad
  what or who is stopping you...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Many times
• 
  dave9uk
  Siteadmin
• 
  navsbad
  are they aware of how damaging they are to the room...?
• 
  dave9uk
  We cant just go changing things
• 
  navsbad
  and, how stressful they are to the mods...?
• 
  dave9uk
  2 sec
• 
  navsbad
  you can if you want to, my guess is you don't want to
• 
  dave9uk
  Sorry comfort break there
• 
  dave9uk
  Honestly we cant
• 
  navsbad
  lol ok
• 
  navsbad
  there's a way if you're serious and, brave enough
• 
  dave9uk
  Do uthink we wud have let the room to 13yr age limit
• 
  navsbad
  yes....that's how bizzarre things have become
• 
  dave9uk
  That was across whole site
• 
  dave9uk
  Ppl complained on forum
• 
  navsbad
  talking of the forum...I've been on chat for 25 years and, have only started posting on the forum...as you know
• 
  dave9uk
  And eventually admin changed but now we have porn plastered everywhare
• 
  dave9uk
  Yes
• 
  navsbad
  my question is this...I've taken a few pops at hollie and, have had nothing but support...heve you ever seen a post supporting her...?
• 
  navsbad
  porn doesn't bother me...I click it off
• 
  dave9uk
  I do too
• 
  navsbad
  can you answer my question re forum...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Im no really on forum butwhat ive reas
• 
  dave9uk
  Read then answer isno
• 
  navsbad
  ok...you'll know she has absolutely no support
• 
  navsbad
  but anyway...you asked how e resolve this
• 
  dave9uk
  There is a few that say she is nice
• 
  dave9uk
  Yes i did
• 
  navsbad
  I'm happy to keep my mouth shut in the room with regard to the mods...in fact, I happen to feel sorry for them having to impose silly rules....but, I will continue to post on the forum
• 
  navsbad
  if you're happy with that, I am too
• 
  dave9uk
  Would you give hollie an appology
• 
  navsbad
  yes, I thought you might be consulting with her and, the answer is a resounding no
• 
  dave9uk
  Ok
• 
  navsbad
  you either accept my offer or, this entire conversation will be posted on the forum so that people know why I'm banned
• 
  navsbad
  I don't mean that as a threat...I'm just letting you know my intentions
• 
  dave9uk
  Ok
• 
  navsbad
  do we have a deal...? if so, this conversation never took place
• 
  navsbad
  that's a no then...?
• 
  navsbad
  you instigated this conversation, you should at least have the civility to answer me
• 
  dave9uk
  I will gimme a sec
• 
  navsbad
  ok
• 
  navsbad
  you need to do what YOU think is best for the room...not hollie, she'd let the world burn in hell to save face
• 
  navsbad
  I may have to go soon, if so I'll log on tomorrow morning, if I get bounced and banned again I'll assume we have no deal
• 
  dave9uk
  Sorry no
• 
  navsbad
  ok....thanks for chatting
• 
  navsbad
  do I assume hollie's told you to ban me on a permanent basis...?
• 
  dave9uk
  Thanks
• 
  navsbad
  dave....do I assume I'm banned permanently...?
• 
  navsbad
  answer me please
• 
  dave9uk
  Yes afraid so
• 
  navsbad
  ok...thanks, good luck
• 
  dave9uk
  Ty

 

[navsbad]

It seems I'm banned permanently because I won't grovel to the b**** from hell.
Watch this space.

 

[connie659296]

It seems I'm permanently banned from the YAH room. Every time I enter I get bounced and, banned....no warning...a few hellos to and from friends then.....whoosh. It seems I'd be better to be a troll picking on chatters than a free thinking chatter taking issue (is this a crime) with the mods when they intrude and, stifle the witty banter of the room. I'm hoping the owners follow these threads, the room is haemorrhaging members....good members. Given the new members we have from AOL the numbers should be much higher than they actually are. It'll soon be left with those that never chat in the room and, those quite content to be subjugated.
Owners, you really do need to takes steps to address this, the YAH room should be the most vibrant and, popular on your site.
Mods...an explanation as to why you're running scared and ban me every time I enter would be appreciated.
Still Homeless.

 

[connie659296]

• Navs this post is inflammatory. You are well aware of the reason for your ban.

• You have been politely whispered to, muted and kicked numerous times about the vulgar statements and mod abuse in YAH

• You constantly refuse point blank to stop swearing and being abusive to the mods and targeting Hollie in a most vindictive manner

• You constantly try to incite unrest in the room and maybe some people do laugh at your crude jokes but maybe that is through embarrassment rather than enjoying them.

YAH is a clean room and that is because mods are there to ensure it remains that way: anyone can come in to chat and not feel abused, bullied and unsafe

I would imagine that most people now pm ing you will think twice when their privacy could be compromised as you have no qualms about posting a private pm on the forum.

Your threat (and that's what it was) to post this pm onto the forum is once again abuse and bullying

At a meeting tonight Hollie did not vote in the decision to make the ban permanent. Five of us mods all agreed that you need to be banned from YAH because of your decision to disregard rules that were made to protect all chatters and to stop mod abuse.

 

[megs233]

;YAH is a clean room and that is because mods are there to ensure it remains that way: anyone can come in to chat and not feel abused, bullied and unsafe


your quote
now i will say this as i been saying it in posts on here :
Never before in the 6 years i been using chat have we ever had to have mods in the YAH room. the room has always looked after itself so to speak . there was an age limit on room over 40 i think it was. [don't quote me]. I was quite happy in there ,if i did't get on with someone just blocked them. Then along come new owners shook it all up. Defeats the name of the room really because all ages was in there. No one aged 20 is young at heart they are young. I ditch the room weeks ago.
Now to Nav, i know he can be an overbearing man but he crossed line few times with me but that's just him as to why you banned him its like childish to me . Nav is nav he find a way if he wants to get back on but if i was him i wont bother you ruined this site . i await my bann! oh but then again i don't use rooms .

 

[JustinCredible]

pm's are meant to be private..they're sacrosanct..I'm appalled at this invasion of privacy!

 

[JustinCredible]

lol @ "do we have a deal...? if so, this conversation never took place" . . . Not that I read the whole pm