unwanted follwers

I have a moderator following me, and once i asked them why to have the answer 'i knew you on another site' in actual fact they didnt, so it brings me to this question.
why cant we have a facility that tells us someone wants to follow us so we can decide if they do or dont.

 

No doubt this post will soon be removed also due to Connie/Dawninthemist or whatever her name is today ! Why is she allowed to follow me on this site when we do not chat, do not interact at all. Is she trying to intimidate chatters as she is following a few she openly shows aggression to ! Im at a loss as to why she can play the victim yet still cause grief ! I want her off my profile and not being able to see when I log on and off !

 

can we have i dont need u to follow me button

 

There should be a choice if you want someone following you or not , like facebook if someone wants to become a friend you can decide yes or no , on here there is no choice , must be easy enough to sort a sod off button out .

 

i totally agree with muchie we should be able to have a choice

 

Also you promote about safe chatting and to be careful who your talking to yet any Tom , Dick or Harry can follow you

 

I set my profile to private, thinking that it wouldn't be possible for someone to *follow me*, i was wrong, someone did *follow*, they did remove themselves when i asked them too, which was good....but yes, they need to somehow incorporate an option to where we have the choice to accept or decline *followers*

 

I have made it very clear that I am unhappy about this person following me, but being the person she is, she will not stop ! Admin have been advised. Its not a biggie really in the scheme of things but why would anyone follow someone they obviously dislike other than to goad and rile them ! Mind you having said that, she is very good at that. Causing disruption and nastiness all around her but then running to admin playing the victim !

 

just bide your time shelagh she will cock up at some point

 

Ooer and wat do they do when they follow you..... do they have a hidden camera?

 

I messaged Admin and the response wasn't favourable!...i doubt that anything will get done about it

 

If you the person can they still follow you ? I have one and love to get rid off .

 

Can you not ask the person to unfollow you

 

yes yaris did it i do on here but you can send pm and ask

 

who knows jude but would be nice to know if they are watching you lol

 

I think the option of privacy on profiles, do need some reviewing. I personally don't mind if people follow me or not, but i do respect privacy and personal online space of people, so i would either ask first if i could follow or follow the person who has just followed me.

 

Thats very gentlemanly of you Wojcik

 

I keep asking people to unfollow me some have but then i look and I've got more just fed up now . I would rather have none .

 

How do u know if u are being followed..... do you look behind?