Ed help

[Londonlifeofamid30YO]

Hi, I don’t usually go on to talk or write about myself but I just don’t know where to go and look for some help and advise, I’ve tried to speak with other guys online to see if they have the same issues but it’s so hard to find somewhere that feels like a safe space that I can trust but where I’m still anonymous with other guys of a similar situation. I’ve tried other chat sites but they are nearly all shady and not a place at all where I can discuss this in. I suffer really bad from ED and it’s getting worse, I just can’t handle the shame of it with my girlfriend and I feel it’s maybe going to drive us apart and I love her so much I really don’t want that to happen ever. She is great and she’s so supportive but I know sometimes she thinks it’s her and it’s definitely not but it’s hard for me to deal with this by myself as a grown man and i need somewhere to be able to talk about and try to find answers together with the people who understand and that is guys. I’ve spoke to the doctor and now I need to understand other peoples stories and how they overcome it. It’s filling my head with so much negativity and really dragging me down to a point where I’m away over thinking it and it’s not helping me at all, my mind is full. I really would like to hear your stories and hopefully I can get there.