If a tree falls in the forest and there's no one around to hear it, does it make a sound? By the same token, if someone who's married has an affair and no one knows about it, have they been unfaithful?
Lighten up! or am I sensing that you're slightly envious of my hedonistic lifestyle? Well I can't blame you for that. But you know, it's never too late to experience new things. If you feel you're in a bit of a rut with your life going nowhere, the thrill of a new romance may be just what you need. So let me give you some advice. If possible, avoid having a liaison with a single, in time they may become dissatisfied with the arrangement and make the affair known to your better half, that's to be avoided at all costs! Always go for a married person, they share the same risk and the same danger - so you're safe.I don't know how you can live with your deceit.
Steady on JJ, let's not get personal - you're better than that.