im confused i was banned but not informed why i certainly was not being abusive or suggestive to anyone in the room so remain puzzled as to why i cant get into the site 48 hrs later .......also the message from the mod was not very professional .........believe me it is doubtful said person would call me "son" in any other walk of life.......this was my first time on the site how can i amend my behaviour if im unaware what it is that im supposed to have done . Is this the way the site owner would want a new user to be treated on their first visit , thanks meedurts