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There is no way to be nice, open my arms and offer the emotionally deficient a hug for her trauma, because she doesn’t deserve it. There is no way to say the sentence is fair, because it’s not- she should have got life, just like him. But once again (and again and again), the Judge takes pity on a child murderer, because she’s a woman. I’m a proud feminist, but not even in my beliefs can I excuse a woman getting away with the murder of her child. Nor can I excuse the pitiful reasons as to why they let the men they invite into their lives to inflict cruelty and bully the life they brought into the world. The life that should be their everything.
Once again, another desperate, pathetic excuse of a ‘mother’ hits the headlines for allowing the death of her baby, Jacob Crouch. I won’t say her name- she doesn’t deserve to be remembered in any capacity. Nor does the scum of a ‘step-father’, who caused so much trauma to Jacob’s body, the coroner described his injuries to be similar to those of a car crash victim. In his short 10-month life, he had been beaten so badly, he died with 39 rib fractures and 19 visible bruises, as well as multiple internal injuries. He died in pain, alone and despite his inability to talk or comprehend what he was experiencing, he knew no one was going to attend his cries with loving, soothing arms. He’d learned that, if nothing else.
Not so long ago, we were reading about Logan Mwangi- a 5-year-old boy left with 56 “catastrophic” injuries after being brutally and savagely attacked by his step-father and a teenager in the care of his step-father. In the months leading up to his death, he had been ritualistically tortured by the pair and his mother, which including submerging him in water, pushing him down the stairs and breaking his arm, making him stand and stare at the wall for long periods of time, deprive him of food and isolating him. Even in death, with the help of his mother, they dumped his body like rubbish in the river.
Each time, a woman let a man do this to their child- and yes, I say ‘Let’. Each of those mothers had a choice and yet they chose to put their own needs and a dick over the basic safety and security of a child, so let’s clear away the excuses- the ‘she’s a victim of domestic violence’ and the excuses of coercive control. Let’s get rid of the sympathy specs that the Judges see a vagina through. Get rid of them, because there are NO EXCUSES. They murdered their children through the toleration of such monsters in their home- their child’s supposed place of safety and security. They handed them over to their murderers willingly, a gift to celebrate their shared sickness, and should thus receive the same sentence.
Step-fathers are over 100 times more likely to beat their partner’s child to death than the natural father is. So, I’ll say this loud and clear to desperate mummy’s out there, because this is a women’s problem:
-He’s not ‘different’- he’s the same as every other dick out there. YOUR desperation is what’s telling you he’s ‘different’, but don’t worry- there’s plenty like him.
-He doesn’t love your kid as much as he would his own, because it’s not his own. He tells you that for more sex/a home/money/your car/access to your child.
-You can live without him- you can live without anyone, except your kid. Your child or adult-child is with you for the rest of your life, no matter what you do. Close your legs and your man won’t be around next month.
-Domination and taking over the parenting of your child is not endearing and proof he’s a ‘good dad’. They’re YOUR child- YOU parent them. It’s not up to a random you’ve known for a month to do that.
-If a man threatens to end the relationship if you don’t do something that would put your child at risk or compromise their safety and wellbeing, it’s called Emotional Blackmail. It is not proof that someone wants, needs or loves you, no matter how your pathetically poor attachment style twists it.
It’s time to take responsibility, women. THIS is a woman’s problem. STOP blaming HIM and grow a pair. YOU control who comes into your child’s life, so him being in your home with your child is YOUR responsibility. Just because you like him and get all fluffy when he flexes his chest, it doesn’t mean he’s a good person or father material. Get a hotel room, have ‘date nights’, meet him away from your child and keep it that way, until he’s proved himself worthy of being a person to invite into your child’s life. TAKE YOUR TIME and stop acting on what Daddy didn’t give you!
Once again, another desperate, pathetic excuse of a ‘mother’ hits the headlines for allowing the death of her baby, Jacob Crouch. I won’t say her name- she doesn’t deserve to be remembered in any capacity. Nor does the scum of a ‘step-father’, who caused so much trauma to Jacob’s body, the coroner described his injuries to be similar to those of a car crash victim. In his short 10-month life, he had been beaten so badly, he died with 39 rib fractures and 19 visible bruises, as well as multiple internal injuries. He died in pain, alone and despite his inability to talk or comprehend what he was experiencing, he knew no one was going to attend his cries with loving, soothing arms. He’d learned that, if nothing else.
Not so long ago, we were reading about Logan Mwangi- a 5-year-old boy left with 56 “catastrophic” injuries after being brutally and savagely attacked by his step-father and a teenager in the care of his step-father. In the months leading up to his death, he had been ritualistically tortured by the pair and his mother, which including submerging him in water, pushing him down the stairs and breaking his arm, making him stand and stare at the wall for long periods of time, deprive him of food and isolating him. Even in death, with the help of his mother, they dumped his body like rubbish in the river.
Each time, a woman let a man do this to their child- and yes, I say ‘Let’. Each of those mothers had a choice and yet they chose to put their own needs and a dick over the basic safety and security of a child, so let’s clear away the excuses- the ‘she’s a victim of domestic violence’ and the excuses of coercive control. Let’s get rid of the sympathy specs that the Judges see a vagina through. Get rid of them, because there are NO EXCUSES. They murdered their children through the toleration of such monsters in their home- their child’s supposed place of safety and security. They handed them over to their murderers willingly, a gift to celebrate their shared sickness, and should thus receive the same sentence.
Step-fathers are over 100 times more likely to beat their partner’s child to death than the natural father is. So, I’ll say this loud and clear to desperate mummy’s out there, because this is a women’s problem:
-He’s not ‘different’- he’s the same as every other dick out there. YOUR desperation is what’s telling you he’s ‘different’, but don’t worry- there’s plenty like him.
-He doesn’t love your kid as much as he would his own, because it’s not his own. He tells you that for more sex/a home/money/your car/access to your child.
-You can live without him- you can live without anyone, except your kid. Your child or adult-child is with you for the rest of your life, no matter what you do. Close your legs and your man won’t be around next month.
-Domination and taking over the parenting of your child is not endearing and proof he’s a ‘good dad’. They’re YOUR child- YOU parent them. It’s not up to a random you’ve known for a month to do that.
-If a man threatens to end the relationship if you don’t do something that would put your child at risk or compromise their safety and wellbeing, it’s called Emotional Blackmail. It is not proof that someone wants, needs or loves you, no matter how your pathetically poor attachment style twists it.
It’s time to take responsibility, women. THIS is a woman’s problem. STOP blaming HIM and grow a pair. YOU control who comes into your child’s life, so him being in your home with your child is YOUR responsibility. Just because you like him and get all fluffy when he flexes his chest, it doesn’t mean he’s a good person or father material. Get a hotel room, have ‘date nights’, meet him away from your child and keep it that way, until he’s proved himself worthy of being a person to invite into your child’s life. TAKE YOUR TIME and stop acting on what Daddy didn’t give you!