Is This Generation of Men Less about Love and More About Sex?

[MichelleD32]

I am doing a podcast called Love: What Is It? and in episode 2, I will be asking the question, is this generation of men more about sex and less about love?
I want to get your thoughts on this.
M x

 

[Not_Fred_Honest]

Hmmmm........ its all about gay men and there attitude to sex. A gay man will have sex with anyone in a club. After all its only sex and most men do it on there own.

Gay attitude's towards sex have gone main stream.

Mastebation is being increasing common with women, before it was just men. I balm all those vids you see online for this.

Now we have both sexes masterbaiting and sex is seen more of a thing to do on a nite out. You have a dance, have a drink, have a shag.

Before people would get to know each other and build up to sex. People are more disconnected in 2025 and not looking for anything long term. It takes the stress and pressure off. Sex isn't the start of a relationship and mite not lead to anything, but its still fun to do and while you're having, you do feel "wanted".

 

[LadyOnArooftop]

Men, to avoid that drawn, haggard, desperate look, should 'clean the pipes' before they go out on a date.

 

[TwoWhalesInAPool]

Avoid taking sex advice or playing with the genitalia of anyone who misspells 'masturbation' or 'masturbating'?

 

[LongDistanceRunner]

So, while the chatroom itself is down, I've been thinking about this more and more lately, and I think it's the other way around. I also think that more based on my interactions in the chatroom than anywhere else.

Why? Well, if someone just wants sex, they'd go to a nightclub, Tinder, or the red light district. Instead, they come here to the chat, where meeting and sex is virtually impossible. Most of the men I chat to, yes they'd like sex of course, but they'd like someone to chat to first. Whether they miss pillow talk like I do, or feeling like someone's listening to them, like, properly listening. Feeling loved.

And it's not just men. I like to chat too. It's the only place I can really get stuff off my chest without worrying about it coming back to me, and that's important.

Sorry, I realise the podcast as probably been out for four months by now, but I hope there's some insight.

 

[MisterWensleydale]

I don't know much about this generation or even my own, so all that qualifies me to comment on this is

1) Being male
2) Being able to understand basic data

So, given there's approximately 8 billion people in the world and the human race goes through about 60 billion condoms a year... I can't see any valid reason to suggest people of any generation or indeed gender would care that much about sex.

 

[Jay12x3]

So, while the chatroom itself is down, I've been thinking about this more and more lately, and I think it's the other way around. I also think that more based on my interactions in the chatroom than anywhere else.

Why? Well, if someone just wants sex, they'd go to a nightclub, Tinder, or the red light district. Instead, they come here to the chat, where meeting and sex is virtually impossible. Most of the men I chat to, yes they'd like sex of course, but they'd like someone to chat to first. Whether they miss pillow talk like I do, or feeling like someone's listening to them, like, properly listening. Feeling loved.

And it's not just men. I like to chat too. It's the only place I can really get stuff off my chest without worrying about it coming back to me, and that's important.

Sorry, I realise the podcast as probably been out for four months by now, but I hope there's some insight.

I'm guilty
Love to chat with ladies
But also love virtual fun too xx